While, I interact with my young students of Hospitality,
one thing is common to all. Everyone wants to grow quickly in their professional careers. With my 20 plus years of experience in
nurturing young minds, I have witnessed that few of them have reached the top
positions in the Industry and many are yet to establish and create an identity
for themselves. What is the difference? Is it luck, or hard work or someone who has
worked smartly to his way up. I believe it is all to do with knowing the right
people, creating the right impressions at the right time. In simple words, its known as Networking. The best jobs in the world are not advertised.
They get filled up through good and
powerful networks.
Networking is about connecting with people
internally and externally to share information and build mutually beneficial
relationship. Networking is all to build the right connections with people. No
person in this world can be underestimated. All human beings are important and
can be of great help and support. Never know when the tables turn. Networking
is a two way relationship. Its a relationship of giving and receiving. The more
one gives the more one receives. The most critical part of any networking is to
build relationships. All relationships need to be nurtured as we nurture a
small sapling. If we ignore this, the relationship fails .Many fail to
understand this. They assume that once a contact or a connection is established,
it stays for life time. Sorry! This does not happen in the real world.
How
to network.
The best way to network is to audit one’s current
contacts. Nurture these contacts. Leverage on social media and technology to
connect and reconnect. Build new contacts. Its important to prepare on a 30
seconds introduction. A quick introduction that can make an impact. I once met
a person in a flight while I was travelling from Delhi to Bangalore. As we were
nearing Bangalore, I quickly introduced myself and we starting talking. As the
flight landed, this gentle man handed over his visiting card. He happened to be
a senior bureaucrat
in
the government and we are still connected till date.
Where
can I meet the right people
Its is good to prepare well for a networking
events. Most conferences, workshops, conventions, training progammes have
networking lunches or dinners.Also,one meets many people in these events. It is good to go well prepared. Carry enough
visiting cards if you have or one can make personal visiting cards. Another
place to meet the right people could be social gatherings, industry and trade
exhibitions & events, college alumni association events, neighbor hood
associations, gyms and sports clubs, residential apartments including every day
transport mode like the local trains and the metro trains in Mumbai.
Being
connected
Once the network is established, its important to
keep connected. Today, it is much easier as technology is a great enabler. Wish
the person on his birthday. Send greetings on important festivals and
occasions. Speak to the person at least once every quarter. Record this in your
personal diary. This is the way to build and nurture relationships. Always
remember it is out of sight, out of mind. Keep letting the world know that you
exist and you can add value to the world.
No person wants to do business with strangers.
People like to do business with known acquaintances and friends. Same principle
is applied to jobs as well. If you are in touch, the other person will be
comfortable to recommended or suggest your name for potential jobs, business or
any assignments or offer a job in his or her organisation. It is important to be grateful and reciprocate when the times
comes.
Most jobs are offered to known people. Almost all organizations do the reference check .It is important to be known as person of
integrity and value driven. Remember, the world is small and it is a network of
networks.
For professional advise connect with me @:
gmbhuvan@gmail.com