While meeting someone, always extend your hand boldly .In
case of a lady,if she extends her hand, then return the gesture. Other wise a
smile and courtesy will suffice.If you are introducing two individuals present
the junior person to the senior. Gentleman to the lady.In a gathering/function
of unknown people you may introduce yourself and exchange cards.
Handshakes
A vital component in any
interpersonal encounter.Those few seconds you “shake” can
empower or weaken a relationship. Men’s handshakes are typically strong and
firm because they naturally have a stronger grip.The following are different types
of handshakes
Controller
Sandwich
Dead Fish
Limp Fingers
Eye Contact
Focused eye contact displays
confidence
It helps you understand what the
other person is really saying verbally.
Looking someone in the eye shows
you are paying attention.
Listening is the most important
human relations skill, and good eye contact plays a large part in conveying our
interest in others.
n When
to look
–
When you engage someone in a conversation or
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When trying to get someone’s attention.
n Where
to look
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Imagine an inverted triangle in your face with
the base of it just above your eyes descending down to the nose. That’s the
suggested area to “look at” during business/professional conversations.
n How
long to look
–
Suggested about 80-90 percent of the time.
–
Less can be interpreted as discomfort,
evasiveness, lack of confidence or boredom.
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Longer can be construed as being too direct,
dominant or forceful and make other person uncomfortable.
